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INTRODUCTION

Love is one of the greatest blessings that Allah gives to people. Throughout their life, everyone wants to be with those who they love, rely on, and are close to. Many of Allah’s blessings and their true meanings can only be found in an environment where true love and friendship exist. For example, a person who is enjoying a magnificent view naturally wants to share his feelings of awe and happiness with someone whom he loves. In the same way, the most magnificent feast or the most beautifully furnished house may not seem very attractive if you are alone. Allah has created people in such a way that they enjoy being loved and loving others, and are pleased with friendships and closeness. To be with those who live by the Qur’an’s morals, and to have fulfilling friendships and love with them is, for each believer, more enjoyable than many other blessings.
This is why Paradise, which Allah promises to those faithful servants whom He loves and with whom He is pleased, is an extraordinarily beautiful place where true love, friendship, and closeness are lived with great exuberance. In the Qur’an, Allah informs us of how believers will live in Paradise: It will be a life of constant joy, friendship, love, peaceful discussions, kind words, and overall peace. Its inhabitants will encounter none of the obstacles to love and friendship that they knew on Earth. For example, one verse in the Qur’an reveals that all malice and hatred will be removed from the hearts of those who enter Paradise (Surat al-A‘raf, 43). In other words, whatever prohibits love and friendship (e.g., jealousy, enmity, rivalry, anger, getting cross, or being offended) will not be found in Paradise.
One of the most important characteristics of the Muslims living in Paradise will be their ability to love, just as they did on Earth, all of the prophets, those pious believers who strove in the path of Allah, and all of the Muslims who lived in the past.
All believers feel very close to other pious believers who strive to please only Allah, and so choose them to be their close friends and guardians. Under all circumstances and unconditionally, they derive great pleasure from being in the company of other Muslims. This great love emanates from their fear and awe of Allah, and, as a reward for their internal closeness to our Lord, they will be rewarded with Paradise, the most beautiful abode of love and truthfulness.
The true source of love in the believers’ hearts is their profound love of Allah. Believers love Allah greatly and, at every moment, strive to gain His love and good pleasure.
Allah has created everything from nothing. While a person was still in a state of “nothingness,” Allah granted him or her life as a blessing. Our Lord, the Most Merciful, the Most Gracious, and the possessor of infinite mercy, has provided everything for His servants: a vast variety of foods, fruits, and flowers; lovely creatures and landscapes in which we take pleasure; and all other things, from the Sun to water, from the air we breathe to the vitamins we need. He created all of this perfectly on our world, which travels thousands of kilometers per hour in outer space, and maintains it in absolute safety. Believers who think about the blessings bestowed upon them, who are aware that He can do all things and is the sole sovereign of the universe, the Creator of everything in the best possible form, will feel their love for Allah strengthen. Those who love and fear Allah, and hold Him in awe, will faithfully observe the boundaries that He has established for humanity, show great sensitivity when implementing His rules, and do their best to win His good pleasure, love, mercy, and Paradise.
Every believer who loves and respects Allah and who strives to please Him, enriches the world with goodness. Whoever loves Allah also loves His creations, feels compassion and mercy for them, and wants to protect them by bringing more goodness and beauty into the world. Allah’s messengers, the most excellent and moral people in the world, always invited their people toward love and closeness to each other and to Allah.
Allah gives the following glad tidings to these people:

Your friend is only Allah, His messenger, and those who believe: those who perform prayer, give alms, and bow [in prayer].
(Surat al-Ma’ida, 55) As for those who make Allah their friend, and His messenger, and those who believe: It is the party of Allah who are victorious!
(Surat al-Ma’ida, 56)

That is the good news that Allah gives to His servants who believe and do right actions. Say: “I do not ask you for any wage for this—except that you love your near of kin. If anyone does a good action, We will increase the good of it for him. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Ever-Thankful.” (Surat ash-Shura, 23)
Some people, who are not aware of the Qur’an’s morality and who, as a result, cannot properly acknowledge and appreciate Allah, are deprived of love and friendship and live a life characterized by pain and punishment. Among these people, even the ones who lead the apparently most successful lives cannot find true happiness and peace. Those who lead a solitary life that has no room for love and friendship, and who do not live by the Qur’an, find no moment that is truly good or enjoyable. Such a state is a punishment for those who are characterized by spiritual and temporal cruelty toward others and a lack of belief. They will never truly love or be loved. The love experienced by these people (ascribing partners to Allah) is not true love and will only bring them pessimism, hopelessness, and pain.
As Allah informs us, loneliness and a lack of friendship are specific to Hell:
He did not believe in Allah the Magnificent, nor did he urge the feeding of the poor. Therefore, here today he has no friend. (Surat al-Haqqa, 33-35)
This site seeks to remind believers of the importance of feeling love toward our Lord, Who possesses infinite mercy, and the importance of Allah’s love toward His creations and the believers, as well as to demonstrate that the lack of love, which is a sign of those who deny His existence, is a great catastrophe and punishment. Believers must do their best to avoid this situation by leading a life full of love with the hope of attaining Paradise and binding oneself with love and loyalty to our Lord, humanity’s true Friend and Guardian, and to the believers.

LOVE OF ALLAH

People naturally like to express their happiness toward those who show them a little courtesy or kindness. For example, he would be very happy if a person welcomes him to his home and offers him whatever he likes, especially if the host is a sensitive person who offers whatever is needed before being asked to do so. Similarly, a person who is suffering from a serious illness and who regains his health due to a doctor’s treatment will not know how to thank him appropriately. The same is true for a pedestrian who is rescued by a stranger from an oncoming car, for he will do whatever he can to show his gratitude.
Someone who is sick and dependent upon others will constantly thank his care-taker, who ensures that his needs are being met. In recognition of this service, he will show his love and appreciation by treating him in a very respectful manner. Every person loves those who are good to them, and will try to treat them in the same manner.
However, some people forget that only Allah can make people happy, treat them with respect, offer them good sustenance and blessings, create pleasing views for them, grant them a new lease on life every morning, protect them from all dangers, cure them when they are ill, ease their pain and suffering through medicine, and that He owns everything that exists. Therefore, as all of the blessings and goodness that people experience come only from Allah, they should direct all of their love, respect, sense of obligation, loyalty, and thanks to Him. While thanking others for their help, we should never forget that our Lord has inspired them to show us mercy and help us. Allah informs us that:
To Allah belongs the kingdom of the heavens and Earth. He gives life and causes to die. You have no protector or helper besides Allah. (Surat at-Tawba, 116)
The Qur’an also relates Prophet Ibrahim’s (as) supplication to Allah, which highlights His mercy upon humanity:
“He Who created me and guides me, Who gives me food and drink. When I am ill, He heals me. He will cause my death and then give me life.” (Surat ash-Shu‘ara’, 78-82)
ALLAH IS THE SOURCE OF EACH PERSON’S BEAUTY
Allah provided life to everybody from nothing, and created the world in the most beautiful and beneficial form possible. For example, people can breathe with ease, for, out of His mercy, He created the correct proportion of atmospheric gases needed for people to breathe. We all know that it is very hard to breathe in a closed environment, and that as the amount of available air decreases, the resulting pain felt by a person increases. We could have been born into a world where breathing was difficult. However, due to Allah’s will and mercy, this was not the case. In fact, the air on our planet relaxes and pleases us.
Allah has filled the world with unlimited varieties of vegetables, fruits, grain cereals, and plants. If He had willed, He could have created just one type of very unpleasant-tasting food and made it vital to our survival, so that we would be forced to continue producing and consuming it. However, as part of His infinite mercy and love, Allah created a wide variety of fruits and vegetables with different flavors. Allah has created people in such a way that they must eat in order to survive, and, because of His mercy, has made eating an enjoyable experience.
In addition, all animals have some hidden beauty. Such domesticated animals as horses, camels, and dogs are able to help people, while other house-bound animals like birds and cats have characteristics that make them loveable. For example, He has given parrots the ability to mimic human speech and has clothed them in aesthetically pleasing feathers of blue, yellow, green, and other varied tones, and made them able to respond to human affection. In other words, Allah created this little creature as a source of love and amusement for people.
From the air we breathe to the rain that falls, from the products that grow on top of the land and beneath it, from the animals we like to water, the cornerstone of our survival, everything in nature reaches us without us exerting any effort. For people to live and continue to live, the most detailed workings take place and the most sensitive ratios are continuously maintained throughout the universe.

He sends down water from the sky, from which We bring forth growth of every kind, and from that We bring forth the green shoots. From them We bring forth close-packed seeds, and from the spathes of the date palm date clusters hanging down, and gardens of grapes and olives and pomegranates, both similar and dissimilar. Look at their fruits as they bear fruit and ripen. There are signs in that for people who believe. (Surat al-An‘am, 99)
Non-human creatures are unaware of their specific characteristics. A rabbit lives without knowing how loveable it is; a butterfly has no awareness of its wings’ symmetry, designs, and coordination; and a peacock, a most exquisite example of color, design, and symmetry, remains unaware of why it has been created and cannot comprehend beautiful things. In fact, the peacock’s designs and colors of its tail, one of the world’s most beautiful spectacles, is enough to remind people to thank Allah and is just one of the blessings that shows His power and ability to create.
Allah presents all of these beautiful creatures as a blessing to humanity. Thus people who see the aesthetics, symmetry, and colors of these animals should acknowledge Allah’s power and thank Him, the Creator of all of these beauties.
Allah’s creations are beyond numbering. For example, there is an unmatched aesthetic beauty in each rose. Its petals have an absolute symmetry and have been arranged with particular care. The top of each petal resembles a very expensive material that is almost as soft as velvet. Despite being planted and raised in muddy black soil, its lively colors are never dirtied or distorted. On the other hand, people using the most advanced technology available still cannot reproduce the specific characteristics of its perfume. Even the most expensive perfume becomes unbearable over time; however, each rose constantly delivers the same magnificent fresh aroma. And yet it is totally unaware of any of its remarkable characteristics, and no other plant or creature was created to enjoy its pleasures. But Allah has allowed people to enjoy each rose as a blessing.
We built seven firm layers above you. We installed a blazing lamp. We sent down cascading water from the clouds so that by it We might bring forth grains, plants, and luxuriant gardens. (Surat an-Naba’, 12-16)
Every beauty is a blessing from our Lord and a reflection of His infinite beauty. For this reason, every conscious, thinking person should thank Allah with great gratitude and love, for He owns all of this beauty. Allah informs us that all of His creations contain many proofs on which people should reflect:
And also the things of varying colors He has created for you in the earth. There is certainly a sign in that for people who pay heed. (Surat an-Nahl, 13)
We have mentioned only a few of the blessings He has bestowed on people. However, reflecting on just one of these examples is enough to understand Allah’s mercy on all people. Those people who, due to Allah’s will, have some degree of understanding and can therefore make decisions, should use this capacity to understand and love Allah properly. By using their conscience, people who acknowledge this magnificent system of creation will see that the world is full of reasons for increasing their love for Allah.
And [in it are] grains on leafy stems and fragrant herbs. So which of your Lord’s blessings do you both then deny? (Surat ar-Rahman, 12-13)
Many Qur’anic verses call upon people to reflect on the many blessings bestowed upon them and remind them of some of these blessings:
He created humanity from a drop of sperm, and yet it is an open challenger! And He created livestock. There is warmth and various uses for you in them, and some you eat. There is beauty in them for you in the evening when you bring them home, and in the morning when you drive them out to graze. They carry your loads to lands you would never reach except with great difficulty. Your Lord is All-Gentle, Most Merciful. And horses, mules, and donkeys both to ride and for adornment. And He creates other things you do not know. The way should lead to Allah, but there are those who deviate from it. If He had willed, He could have guided every one of you. He sends down water from the sky. From it you drink, and from it come the shrubs among which you graze your herds. And by it He makes crops grow for you, as well as olives, dates, grapes, and fruit of every kind. There is certainly a sign in that for people who reflect. He has made night and day subservient to you, and the Sun and the Moon and stars, all subject to His command. There are certainly signs in that for people who use their intellect. And also the things of varying colors He has created for you in the earth. There is certainly a sign in that for people who pay heed. He made the sea subservient to you so that you can eat fresh flesh from it and bring out from it ornaments to wear. You see the ships sailing through it so that you can seek His bounty, and so that, hopefully, you will show thanks. He cast firmly embedded mountains on the Earth so it would not move under you, and rivers and pathways so that, hopefully, you would be guided. (Surat an-Nahl, 4-15)
These blessings are only a sample of the blessings given to humanity, for in a following verse, Allah proclaims: “If you tried to number Allah’s blessings, you could never count them. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful” (Surat an-Nahl, 18). Even if a person reflected on the blessings recalled in these verses, this would be enough for him to understand Allah’s infinite benevolence, compassion, and mercy. Allah endowed us with life, ensured our livelihood, made us happy, and created every creature and event that makes us happy. For this reason, we must continually thank Him for these blessings and feel a great love for Him.

Humanity. Remember Allah’s blessing to you. Is there any creator other than Allah providing for you from heaven and earth?
(Surah Fatir, 3) Any blessing you have is from Allah. Then when harm touches you, you cry to Him for help. (Surat an-Nahl, 53)
And also the things of varying colors He has created for you in the earth. There is certainly a sign in that for people who pay heed. (Surat an-Nahl, 13)
He splits the sky at dawn, and appoints the night as a time of stillness, and the Sun and the Moon as a means of reckoning. That is what the Almighty, the All-Knowing, has ordained. (Surat al-An‘am, 96)
He has appointed the stars for you so that you might be guided by them in the darkness of the land and the sea. We have made the Signs clear for people who have knowledge.
(Surat al-An‘am, 97)
ALLAH CREATED ALL PEOPLE FROM NOTHING AND GAVE THEM LIFE
People will see Allah’s grace upon them, as well as His eternal mercy and compassion, when they reflect on how they were created, received life, and have been carefully protected from the moment of their birth until this very moment. Allah calls upon people to reflect on their creation in the following verse:
Does not humanity recall that We created it when it was nothing? (Surah Maryam, 67)
Allah places the fetus in the most protective situation, thereby preventing the resulting child from becoming disabled or experiencing pain and suffering. Whatever a baby needs was created billions of years ago. From the air that he breathes to his mother’s milk that contains every nutrient he requires, everything is ready for him.
Every person’s body is protected throughout their life within the faultless system that Allah has created. For example, each person’s heart beats without stopping, even though a person does nothing to ensure this. If he had to ensure that his heart beat every second of his life, his life would become unbearable, for he would be unable to sleep, eat, or do anything else but think about his heart beating. However, Allah has ordered each persons’ heart to beat from the moment of life to the moment of death. As a result, He ensures that each person’s heart will never stop beating, even for a second.
A person has no final control over his or her body, despite asserting the opposite. Our Most Glorious Lord is the sole controller of each part of a person’s body. A person cannot independently control and manage the blood traveling with great speed, how much blood the heart pumps, how long it takes to coagulate, and all of the various systems (e.g., respiratory, digestive, immune, nervous, and so on) existing within his body.
A person is dependent upon Allah for everything, as Allah reveals:
O humanity. You are the poor in need of Allah, whereas Allah is the Rich Beyond Need, the Praiseworthy. (Surah Fatir, 15)
He is Allah—the Creator, the Maker, and the Giver of Form. To Him belong the Most Beautiful Names. Everything in the heavens and Earth glorifies Him. He is the Almighty, the All-Wise. (Surat al-Hashr, 24)
Every morning when you wake up, you see that your body works perfectly so that you can live. You breathe with ease, and see a colorful world without exerting the slightest effort.
You will hear noises clearly, sense all the smells with ease, and eat whatever you desire. You do not have to focus and dwell on where the vitamins that you consume in your food are sent, how your immune system operates and interacts with microbes and viruses, how your brain produces images of a piece of furniture, or any other details.
Without any exertion, you can recall what you did yesterday or many years ago and store all of this information in your memory. Most importantly, despite having a body that operates according to sensitive balances, you will be in good health, for Allah is constantly controlling all of your systems. This is why people should reflect on the faultless systems and innumerable blessings that our Lord has bestowed upon them. As Allah reminds us in the Qur’an:
O humanity. What has deluded you in respect of your Noble Lord—He Who created you, formed you, proportioned you, and assembled you in whatever way He willed? (Surat al-Infitar, 6-8)
Therefore, if a person were to look at his body, a great deal of evidence could be found to lead him to acquire a profound and great love of Allah. In addition, the universe contains many details, all of which represent innumerable blessings bestowed on people. All of these extraordinary blessings are created and protected by our one and only friend: Allah.
Those who reflect on these details see that they are constantly dependent upon Allah, Who has created them and enabled them to live. Without His consent, they could not even breathe. Thus, they can understand that Allah is their closest friend and guardian. Allah informs us of this reality in the following verse:
[Say:] “There is no way out for you in Earth or heaven. You have no protector or helper besides Allah.” (Surat al-‘Ankabut, 22)
EVERYTHING THAT ALLAH HAS CREATED IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND BENEFICIAL
Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him. (Surat al-Mujadala, 22)
Whatever our Lord, the possessor of infinite justice and mercy, has created, as well as every judgment that He has made, is the most beneficial and beautiful for all people. Even seemingly unimportant incidents possess great goodness, wisdom, and beauty. Allah informs us of this reality in the verses:
It may be that you hate something when it is good for you, and it may be that you love something when it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know. (Surat al-Baqara, 216)
We guided him on the way, whether he is thankful or unthankful. (Surat al-Insan, 3)
Those believers who lead their lives knowing this fact will be content with whatever confronts them and whatever they hear, and always turn to Allah to thank him for all that He has created. Thus, they remember Allah with love and praise.
ALLAH WILLS EASE FOR PEOPLE
Our Lord, the possessor of infinite mercy and compassion, has called people to the easiest and most beautiful path through His books and messengers. The religious morals to which He summons us are the easiest to follow, and the prescribed prayers are within reach of every person’s ability. Those who cannot fulfill their religious obligations have been informed of the many easy ways that they can use to change this situation and earn our Lord’s good pleasure. As we read in the following verses:
We will ease you to the easy way. (Surat al-A‘la, 8)
He has selected you and not placed any constraint upon you in the religion—the religion of your forefather Ibrahim. (Surat al-Hajj, 78)
We did not send down the Qur’an to you to make you miserable, but only as a reminder for those who have fear [and respect for Allah]. (Surah Ta Ha, 2-3)
In another verse, Allah says that He will not burden people beyond what they can bear:
Allah does not impose on any self any more than it can bear. For it is what it has earned; against it is what it has brought upon itself. “Our Lord, do not take us to task if we forget or make a mistake. Our Lord, do not place on us a load like the one You placed on those before us. Our Lord, do not place on us a load we have not the strength to bear. Pardon us, forgive us, and have mercy on us. You are our Master, so help us against the unbelievers.” (Surat al-Baqara, 286)
This ease is a manifestation of His mercy, forgiveness, and compassion. Allah has established an easy religion for His servants, and, at the end of this temporal test, He offers the glad tidings of unprecedented beauty and unimaginable perfection full of blessings in the eternal life of Paradise:
Their Lord gives them the good news of His mercy and good pleasure, and of Gardens in which they will enjoy everlasting delight, remaining in them timelessly, forever and ever. Truly, there is an immense reward with Allah. (Surat at-Tawba, 21-22)
Allah needs nothing and is free of all deficiencies. On the other hand, people need to worship, pray, and display good morals. Even the world’s most brutal, violent, and faithless person cannot harm Allah in any way, for He is the sole owner and sovereign of all that exists. Still, Allah says that He will reward those who display moral excellence. This is one of many signs of Almighty Allah’s forgiveness and mercy.

In this way We have sent it down as an Arabic Qur’an, and We have made various threats in it so that, hopefully,
they will guard against evil or it will spur them into remembrance.
(Surah Ta Ha, 113)

The revelations contained within Allah’s true books brought people into the light from their darkness, and His sending prophets and messengers to guide everyone to the true path is yet another manifestation of our Lord’s mercy.
Allah has made the Qur’an a source of light that informs people of the right and wrong paths and reveals all things. Our Lord has told us about all forms of worship, belief, and behaviors for which we will be held accountable in the Hereafter.
We have brought them a Book elucidating everything with knowledge, as guidance and a mercy for people who believe. (Surat al-A‘raf, 52)
Allah states in the Qur’an that none of its letters will ever be corrupted:
We have sent down the Reminder and will preserve it. (Surat al-Hijr, 9)
Falsehood cannot reach it [the Qur’an] from before it or behind it—it is a revelation from One Who is All-Wise, Praiseworthy. (Surah Fussilat, 42)
The Qur’an will be protected and remain valid until the Day of Judgment. In its faultless and complete manner, it is a great blessing and ease for all humanity. Allah informs the believers of these facts, as follows:
We have sent down the Book to you making all things clear, and as guidance, mercy, and good news for the Muslims. (Surat an-Nahl, 89)
Furthermore, Allah has sent His messengers and prophets throughout history to all people. These blessed people, whom Allah has selected, are very dependable, pious, just, and possessed of good morals. They sought only Allah’s good pleasure, even at the risk of death, and spent their lives calling people to the true path. In addition, they were very compassionate, for they constantly thought of the believers, protected them, and were sensitive and self-sacrificing toward them. For Allah to select all of these special people with such excellent characteristics, and then send them to humanity, is yet another example of His kindness to believers.
A further manifestation of His mercy and protection is that He has informed all things to people, and has sent true books, as well as reliable messengers and prophets, to invite people to an easy path. Allah has ensured ease for all people throughout history, provided for them in the best possible form, and vowed to guard and protect those who adhere to His call. And, above all, He has promised Paradise with all of its beauty to the believers. Allah, the Most Merciful, is the protector and provider of all people in both this world and the Hereafter, and possessor of infinite compassion.
ALLAH ACCEPTS REPENTANCE AND FORGIVES THOSE WHO FEEL REMORSE
Allah, Who possesses infinite forgiveness, reveals that:
If Allah were to punish people for their wrong actions, not a single creature would be left on Earth. However, He defers them until a predetermined time. When their specified time arrives, they cannot delay it for a single hour, nor can they bring it forward. (Surat an-Nahl, 61)
Even while you are reading this book, Allah has allotted a specific period of time for you and all other people. This is a most beneficial period for the believers. Every person who fears, respects, and obeys Allah and then turns to Him in repentance for every sin that he or she has committed will receive forgiveness, as long as they are sincere. Allah’s infinite compassion is revealed in the following verse:
Were it not for Allah’s favor to you and His mercy… and that Allah is Ever-Returning, All-Wise. (Surat an-Nur, 10)
Since Allah is the possessor of infinite mercy, there is always the hope of forgiveness. Our Lord gives the opportunity of salvation to each person as long as he or she is alive, and has made everyone aware of this fact. Despite all of Allah’s blessings and mercy, those who forget Him or lead a life without thinking about their reliance upon Allah are, in reality, in a state of absolute heedlessness. Unable to appropriately acknowledge Allah’s mercy, love, and blessings in this life, they will be punished in the Hereafter.
Allah reinforces with His help whoever He wills. There is instruction in that for people of insight.
(Surah Al ‘Imran, 13)
ALLAH PROTECTS AND HELPS THOSE WHO FOLLOW HIS PATH
Those who sincerely turn to Allah and follow His path will sense His protection and presence. Allah will clear the path for those who sincerely believe in Him, avoid the unlawful and engage in the lawful, by providing ease for them in all that they do. Allah informs us in many verses that He will help, protect, and raise them to high levels, for:
… it is Our duty to help the believers. (Surat ar-Rum, 47)
One of the best examples of Allah’s help and support can be seen in the life of Prophet Musa (as), who fled from his city, turned to Allah, and made the following supplication: “My Lord, I am truly in need of any good You have in store for me” (Surat al-Qasas, 24). Allah accepted his supplication, enabling Prophet Musa (as) to find a community of people with whom he could stay and on whom he could depend.
Following the revelation of Prophet Musa’s (as) prophethood, Allah appointed his brother, Prophet Harun (as), to support and help him in his mission to Pharaoh. Allah assisted both of them when Pharaoh and his armies set upon them. He split open the sea, thereby enabling Prophet Musa (as) and the Children of Israel to escape to freedom while Pharaoh and his army drowned. Allah relates the following information about this event:
We showed great kindness to Musa and Harun. We rescued them and their people from their terrible plight. We supported them, and so they were the victors. (Surat as-Saffat, 114-6)
Allah assisted Prophet Nuh (as), by inspiring him to build an ark to protect him and his followers from the impending flood; rescued Prophet ‘Isa (as) from certain death by raising him to His presence; and protected Prophet Yusuf (as) by freeing him from the Egyptian vizier’s dungeon and then raising him to high rank and power. Our Lord constantly assisted our Prophet (saas) by lightening his burden. Allah informs us that He was our Prophet’s (saas)guardian, protector, and source of help, which enabled the believers’ hearts to be in a state of total peace and trust:
Ask: “Who is going to shield you from Allah if He desires evil for you or desires mercy for you?” They will find no one to protect or help them besides Allah. (Surat al-Ahzab, 17)
Our word was given before to Our servants, the Messengers, that they would certainly be helped. Our army will be victorious. (Surat as-Saffat, 171-173)
O you who believe. If you help Allah, He will help you and make your feet firm. (Surah Muhammad, 7)
We will certainly help Our messengers and those who believe both in the life of this world and on the Day the witnesses appear. (Surah Ghafir, 51)
People rely on Allah every moment, for there is no other helper but Him. Whenever you are faced with any form of distress, Allah is the only One Who can offer any help. As a mercy, Allah created many blessings for people to use when they are confronted with hardship. While people benefit from these blessings, it would be a grave mistake to assume that these blessings are a source of independent strength. Given that Allah has created all of these blessings, they should be seen as manifestations of His favor and mercy upon humanity. For example, if someone visits a doctor, only Allah can cure him. And, the doctor can only cure a person with His consent. By the same token, if a person hires a solicitor as his guardian to protect what is rightfully his, his true guardian is Allah. A solicitor can only protect a person’s rights or ensure legal representation by Allah’s will. In reality, Allah brings all issues to an end and provides for a person’s blessings in the best possible way.
For people who seek Allah’s help and who view our Lord as their true guardian, only true friend, and helper, Allah guarantees that His help will reach them from many different paths. Those who are conscious of these facts will never seek such guarantees from other people or sources, for they know that all help is from Allah and so seek everything from Him. When people attain success, are victorious, or benefit from an unexpected source, they immediately turn to Allah and thank Him. As a result of this divine help, they regard our Lord with deep love and overflowing respect. Allah reminds us that He is each person’s true guardian and source of help in the following verse:
Whenever We abrogate a verse or cause it to be forgotten, We bring one better than it or equal to it. Don’t you know that Allah has power over all things? Don’t you know that Allah is He to Whom the kingdom of the heavens and Earth belongs and that, besides Allah, you have no protector and no helper? (Surat al-Baqara, 106-7)
Help comes from no one but Allah, the Almighty, the All-Wise. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 126)
Allah was their Protector. Let the believers put their trust in Allah. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 122)
ALLAH ACCEPTS SUPPLICATIONS
None of us has any independent strength. At every point of our life, we depend upon Allah to offer us His mercy, bestow some of His kindness and blessings, and protect and ensure our safety. Our Lord, the possessor of infinite mercy, informs people that He will respond to their supplications and prayers.
If My servants ask you about Me, I am near. I answer the call of the caller when he calls on Me. They should, therefore, respond to Me and believe in Me so that, hopefully, they will be rightly guided. (Surat al-Baqara, 186)
Your Lord says: “Call on Me, and I will answer you. Those who are too proud to worship Me will enter Hell abject.” (Surah Ghafir, 60)
The fact that Allah, the sole sovereign and owner of everything that exists, whether spiritual or temporal, Who hears every prayer, knows everything that goes through a person’s mind, and responds to each prayer is a great blessing and mercy.
We will certainly help Our messengers and those who believe both in the life of this world and on the Day the witnesses appear. (Surah Ghafir, 51)
While making a supplication, we can ask for anything that we want, provided that we adhere to Allah’s will and observe the limits that He has set for humanity. The Qur’an contains many of the prophets’ supplications and reveals how He responded to them:
And Ayyub, when he called out to his Lord: “Great harm has afflicted me, and You are the Most Merciful of the merciful,” We responded to him, removed the harm that was afflicting him, and restored his family to him, and the same again with them, as a mercy direct from Us and a Reminder to all worshippers. (Surat al-Anbiya’, 83-84)
And Zakariyya, when he called out to his Lord: “My Lord, do not leave me on my own, though You are the Best of Inheritors.” We responded to him and gave him Yahya, restoring for him his wife’s fertility. They outdid one another in good actions, calling out to Us in yearning and in awe, and humbling themselves to Us. (Surat al-Anbiya’, 89-90)
Nuh called out to Us, and what an excellent Responder We are. We rescued him and his family from the terrible plight, and made his descendants the survivors (Surat as-Saffat, 75-77)
Call on your Lord humbly and secretly. He does not love those who overstep the limits [that He has set for humanity]. Do not corrupt the Earth after it has been put right. Call on Him fearfully and eagerly. Allah’s mercy is close to the good-doers. (Surat al-A‘raf, 55-56)
Moreover, He accepts the supplications of everyone in distress and the needy:
He Who responds to the oppressed when they call on Him and removes their distress, and has appointed you as inheritors of the land. Is there another deity besides Allah? How little you pay heed! (Surat an-Naml, 62)
A person who sees his or her supplications answered experiences great joy. To know that Allah is always with you, constantly seeing, hearing, and knowing everything connected with you causes you to hope that Allah will help you in every task that you undertake and accept every request that you make as long as you are sincere. This increases a believer’s love, submission, and closeness to Allah.
ALLAH POSSESSES INFINITE JUSTICE
Throughout our lives, each of us has perhaps experienced and witnessed many people acting unjustly. Such behavior is routinely witnessed at work, while testifying, or making a decision. They constantly protect their own interests, or, at least, do not consider being just. Justice is one indication that the person possesses moral excellence, as well as honesty and sincerity. Such people who practice justice even at their own personal loss will earn their community’s love and respect and, despite having different opinions on various matters, will be respected and even declared to be heroes.
Allah, the source of infinite justice, makes all of His judgments with precise justice. All people have received their portion of justice, and will continue to do so in the future. Every person will fully receive the reward of their deeds with Allah. The Qur’an tells us how His justice will be implemented perfectly in the Hereafter:
On the Day We summon every people with their records, those who are given their book in their right hand will read their book and will not be wronged by even the smallest speck. (Surat al-Isra’, 71)
Say: “Our Lord will bring us all together and then will judge between us with the truth. He is the Just Decider, the All-Knowing.’” (Surah Saba’, 26)
Being sure of receiving Allah’s justice, a person submits to Allah with boundless love and absolute trust. Subsequently, in all situations he knows that Allah’s justice is manifest in that incident and thus welcomes with absolute love and happiness any incident that our Lord creates.
Our Lord! You know what we keep hidden and what we divulge. Nothing is hidden from Allah, either on Earth or in heaven. (Surah Ibrahim, 38)
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FEAR,RESPECT,AND LOVE

Some people assume that love of Allah is enough for those who seek to live according to religious morals and earn Allah’s good pleasure. However, Allah informs us that His servants who possess superior morals and love Him also have a genuine fear and respect for Him. Every person who acknowledges Allah with all of His attributes and appreciates His greatness, as well as those who have intelligence and a conscience, will fear and respect Allah to the utmost degree. Allah enables such servants, who also abide by His will, to distinguish good from evil and to observe the limits that He has set for humanity. Allah informs us of the blessings He gives the believers in the following verse:
O you who believe. If you fear [and respect] Allah, He will give you discrimination, erase your bad actions, and forgive you. Allah’s favor is indeed immense. (Surat al-Anfal, 29)
For example, such people do not lie. Even if their self-interests suffer a loss, they will worry about not earning Allah’s good pleasure and thereby earning His retribution. Therefore, they will act in an honest manner. If they indulge in even a moment’s heedlessness and say something that is not right, they will immediately repent and undertake never to repeat that action in the future. Similarly, despite being in great need, they will not try to earn a living through unlawful means because they fear (and respect) Allah.
Every person who does not appropriately fear and respect Allah has his own private boundaries. Even if he is true and honest up to that boundary, he will act according to his own interests beyond it. Those who fear and respect Allah, on the other hand, will never stray from the straight path, regardless of how difficult their situation is. When confronted with any hardship, they immediately turn to Him in complete trust and ask Him to show them a way out.
Allah loves His servants, wills the good for them, is oft-forgiving and merciful, helps them in every instance, and bestows kindness upon His servants without seeking recompense. The idolaters and unbelievers are far away from Allah’s mercy. Our Lord, the possessor of infinite justice, provides for His pious servants who possess a genuine heart and true belief in Allah, and will reward them in this world and the Hereafter. Those who insist on unbelief will suffer the pains of Hell.
So fear [and respect] Allah as much as you are able to, and listen and obey.
(Surat at-Taghabun, 16)
Spend in the way of Allah. Do not cast yourselves into destruction. And do good: Allah loves good-doers. (Surat al-Baqara, 195)
Those who comprehend our Lord’s infinite strength and ability to punish in the Hereafter hold Allah in complete awe and respect. As a result, they are careful not to adopt an attitude that does not earn our Lord’s good pleasure. However, on the other hand, as a result of their genuine and faithful love of Allah, hoping Allah will forgive their sins and accept their repentance, they do their best to earn His good pleasure and be rewarded with Paradise for their striving in His path. The Qur’an mentions the believers’ morals, as follows:
Those who fear [and respect] their Lord in the Unseen will have forgiveness and an immense reward. (Surat al-Mulk, 12)
O you who believe. Fear [and respect] Allah the way He should be feared [and respected], and do not die except as Muslims. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 102)
But those who have fear [and respect] of their Lord will have Gardens with rivers flowing under them, remaining in them timelessly, for ever: hospitality from Allah. What is with Allah is better for those who are truly good. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 198)
Every believer who genuinely loves Allah will feel a great awe for Allah’s punishment and, by trying not to lose His love and consent, will strive to earn His good pleasure. Allah says of those believers, who have these morals:
But as for anyone who desires the Hereafter and strives for it with the striving it deserves, being a believer, their striving will be gratefully acknowledged.
 (Surat al-Isra’, 19)

THOSE WHO LOVE ALLAH

Due to their strengthened love and genuine closeness, those who have faith love all of Allah’s creations and see the manifestation of His attributes in every creation. As the Qur’an declares: “Your friend is only Allah, His messenger, and those who believe: those who perform prayer, give alms, and bow [in prayer]“ (Surat al-Ma’ida, 55). Therefore, those who have faith harbor a deep respectful love toward sincere believers as well as His prophets, all of whom He sent to guide humanity to the true path. Prophets are role models of the Qur’an’s morality, and serve as examples of superior faith and superior morals. Allah says: “You have an excellent model in the messenger of Allah, for all who put their hope in Allah and the Last Day and remember Allah much” (Surat al-Ahzab, 21). Our Prophet’s (saas) life and morals contain many beautiful examples and wisdom for the believers, such as his deep loyalty to Allah, piety, patience, tenderness, compassion, intelligence, bravery, cleanliness, mercy and fidelity to Allah.
Prophet Muhammad (saas) has reminded us of the importance of loving Allah and His messengers, as follows:
None of you believes until I [the Messenger of Allah] am dearer to him than his father, his child, and all of humanity. (Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim)
Anas (ra) narrates that: “Allah’s Messenger (saas) said: ‘Whoever has the following three qualities will have the sweetness of faith: The one who loves Allah and His Messenger (saas) more than anything else; the one who loves a person purely and solely for Allah’s sake; and the one who hates to return to unbelief after Allah has saved him, as he would hate to be thrown into the Fire.”(Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim)
Allah showed great kindness to the believers when He sent a messenger to them from among themselves. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 164)
All of Allah’s prophets and messengers, who were selected by Allah, have earned our Lord’s good pleasure and have superior morals. In the Qur’an, Allah gives examples of their beautiful morals and mentions them with praise. Our Prophet (saas), Prophet Musa (as), Prophet ‘Isa (as), Prophet Ibrahim (as), Prophet Harun (as), Prophet Yahya (as), Prophet Yusuf (as), Prophet Yunus (as), Prophet Ya‘qub (as), Prophet Isma‘il (as), Prophet Sulayman (as), Prophet Dawud (as), and all other prophets and messengers have all been fine role models of sincere faith in Allah, respectful fear, piety, and beautiful morals. Through these exalted people, who used the Qur’an as a guide, believers learned of their splendid characteristics and have sought to reach the same level of morality so that they also may earn His good pleasure and join them in Paradise. Therefore, they strive to excel in adhering to the limits that He has set for humanity and to fulfill their obligation to Him. The believers’ profound love for the prophets shows their understanding of love. Their love for other people stems from their faith, good morals, and piety. To know a person’s such characteristics, even if you never meet that person, serves as a means for that person to be profoundly and enthusiastically loved.
Even if those who possess faith never see, meet, or come into contact, they will feel an internal love, respect, and a binding closeness to Allah’s messengers. Allah sent all of the prophets as a mercy, and the fact that He mentions with love and praise in many verses heightens the believers’ love for them. Those believers always mention Allah’s prophets and messengers with respect, love, and praise, and always keep them in front of and above themselves. At every opportunity, they tell people of these great people’s submission to Allah, their closeness, love, and good morals, and call others to emulate the path of the prophets.
We made them leaders, guiding by Our command; revealed to them how to do good actions, perform prayer,
give alms; and they worshipped Us. (Surat al-Anbiya’, 73)
Allah reveals the believers’ love for the prophets and informs us that they always put the prophets ahead of themselves:
The Prophet has a greater claim on the believers than they have on themselves; his wives are [as] their mothers; and blood relations have the better claim in respect of one to the other, according to the Book of Allah, than other believers and the emigrants, except that you should act in a proper manner toward your close associates. That is inscribed in the Book. (Surat al-Ahzab, 6)
Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him. (Surat al-Mujadala, 22)
Many verses relate the prophets’ good morals and superior characteristics. Some of these are given below:
And left the later people saying of him: “Peace be upon Ibrahim.” That is how We recompense good-doers. He truly was one of Our believing servants. We gave him the good news of Ishaq, a prophet, one of the believers. We showered blessings upon him and Ishaq. Among their descendants are good-doers and also people who clearly wrong themselves. (Surat as-Saffat, 108-13)
And left the later people saying of them: “Peace be upon Musa and Harun.” That is how We recompense good-doers. They truly were among Our servants who believe. (Surat as-Saffat, 119-22)
We left the later people saying of him: “Peace be upon the family of Ilyas.” That is how We recompense good-doers. He truly was one of Our servants who believe. (Surat as-Saffat, 129-32)
We gave him Ishaq and Ya‘qub, each of whom We guided. And before him We had guided Nuh. And among his descendants were Dawud and Sulayman, Ayyub and Yusuf, Musa and Harun. That is how We recompense the good-doers. And Zakariyya and Yahya, ‘Isa and Ilyas. All of them were among the believers. And Isma‘il and al-Yasa’, Yunus and Lut. All of them We favored over all beings. And some of their forebears, descendants, and brothers; We chose them and guided them to a straight path. (Surat al-An‘am, 84-87)
In the Qur’an, Allah sends His salutations to the messengers:
And peace be upon the messengers. And praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. (Surat as-Saffat, 181-82)
Prophets are Allah’s most loved people, His closest friends, and the most pious believers. As a result, they are also the believers’ most dearly loved ones. They manifest this love, in turn, by sending salutations to them (as in the verses given above), following their path, and adopting their morals.
THOSE WHO LOVE ALLAH ALSO LOVE THE BELIEVERS
Those who are loved by Allah are also loved by believers; those who befriend Allah also befriend the believers; those who earn His good pleasure also earn that of the believers; and whoever loves Allah should also love His servants. Those pious believers who follow His path are among those people most loved by Allah. For this reason, believers love one another and are very concerned about each other. Many verses relate the believers’ love for one another, their closeness to each other, their mercy to each other and their attachment to each other. Some of these verses are as follows:

 







Restrain yourself patiently with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, desiring His face. Do not turn your eyes from them, desiring the attractions of this world. And do not obey someone whose heart We have made neglectful of Our remembrance, who follows his own whims and desires, and whose life has transgressed all bounds. (Surat al-Kahf, 28)
Allah loves those who fight in His way in ranks like well-built walls. (Surat as-Saff, 4)
Hold fast to the rope of Allah all together, and do not separate. Remember Allah’s blessing to you when you were enemies and He joined your hearts together so that you became brothers by His blessing. You were on the very brink of a pit of the Fire, and He rescued you from it. In this way Allah makes His signs clear to you, so that, hopefully, you will be guided. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 103)
Believing men and women are friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong, perform prayer and give alms, and obey Allah and His messenger. (Surat at-Tawba, 71)
Those who believe and have emigrated and striven with their wealth and themselves in the way of Allah, and those who have given refuge and help, they are the friends and protectors of one another. (Surat al-Anfal, 72)

OUR PROPHET (SAAS)

Al-Miqdam ibn Ma’di Karib relates that:
The Messenger of Allah (saas) stated: “When a man loves his brother (for Allah’s sake), let him tell him that he loves him.” (At-Tirmidhi and Sunan Abu Dawud)
The Messenger of Allah (saas) said: “Shake hands, and rancor will disappear. Give presents to each other and love each other, and enmity will disappear.” (Sahih Muslim)
The Prophet (saas)said: “Give present to one another, and you will then have love for one another.” (Imam al-Ghazzali, Ihya’ `Ulum ad-Din)
Good conduct is the root of love for one another, and bad conduct is the root of hatred, envy, and enmity. (Imam al-Ghazzali, Ihya’ `Ulum ad-Din)
The Prophet (saas)said: “If two brothers meet with each other, they are like two hands, one of which wipes the dust off the other.” (Imam al-Ghazzali, Ihya’ ‘Ulum ad-Din)
Do not envy one another, do not hate one another, do not turn your back on one another (in discontent), and be the servants of Allah like brothers. (Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim)
Love Allah, because He nourishes and sustains you. Love me, because Allah loves me. (At-Tirmidhi)
The Prophet (saas)said: “Allah raises him up who humbles himself for Allah. He humbles the one who is insolent. Allah loves one who remembers Him much.” (Imam al-Ghazzali, Ihya’ ‘Ulum ad-Din)

Fear (and respect) Allah, and know that He has knowledge of all things. (Surat al-Baqara, 231)
Do not strut arrogantly about the land. You will certainly never split Earth apart, nor will you ever rival the mountains in height. All of that is evil action and hateful in the sight of your Lord. (Surat al-Isra’, 37-38)
Do you not see that Allah has subjected to you everything in the heavens and Earth, and has showered His blessings upon you, both outwardly and inwardly? Yet there are people who arque about Allah without knowledge, guidance, or any illuminating Book. (Surah Luqman, 20)

TO LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH


Believers, whose sole objective in this life is to earn Allah’s good pleasure, mercy, and Paradise, and who have a heartfelt submission to Allah, will lead their entire lives for His sake. As outlined in “Say: ‘My prayer and my rites, my living and my dying, are for Allah alone, the Lord of all the worlds.” (Surat al-An’am, 162), they aim to earn Allah’s good pleasure in whatever they do and in every instance. They use whatever they possess in their struggle to realize this goal. People who acknowledge all of Allah’s attributes; who constantly witness His power, greatness, mercy, love, and compassion; who sense the love of Allah at every moment—their love cannot be compared with any other type of love. Allah describes this love as a “greater” love, while the idolaters’ distorted love is described as:

… He to Whom the kingdom of the heavens and Earth belongs. He does not have a son, and He has no partner in the Kingdom. He created everything, and determined it most exactly. (Surat al-Furqan, 2)
Some people set up equals to Allah, loving them as they should love Allah. But those who believe have greater love for Allah. (Surat al-Baqara, 165)
As mentioned in the above verse, some people associate partners with Allah, and love other creatures with the love that they should give only to Him (Surely Allah is beyond this). The believers, on the other hand, know that no person or any part of creation has any innate strength or beauty, for it is Allah Who created all of them from nothing. No living creature can design or prepare its own beauty. The beauty possessed by a person’s face or the loveable nature of an animal, their expected life span and time of death, as well as everything else about them is created by Allah, and every beauty is only at His behest. So the believers will love that beauty as it is reflected in people, animals, and nature, being aware of this fact. Subsequently, a believer’s love is directly solely toward Allah, Who provides all of these things and Who possesses all things.
Our Prophet (saas) also reminded us that the love we feel among ourselves should be for the sake of Allah:
The best action is to love for the sake of Allah and to hate for the sake of Allah. (Sunan Abu Dawud)
Whoever loves and hates for the sake of Allah, and whoever seals a friendship or declares enmity for His sake, will receive, because of this, Allah’s protection. (Sahih Muslim)
Those who associate partners with Allah assume that each person owns his or her own beauty, and so praise that beauty. This is like a person who attends an art show and associates the beauty of the pictures to the artwork, even though the person who deserves this praise is the artist who painted the pictures. Given this truth, people who are confronted with a beautiful view, a pleasant sound, or delicious food should immediately think of our Lord, the Creator of all these beautiful things, and channel the resulting love, pleasure, and thanks to Him. Those who have true faith and, therefore, do not associate partners with Allah, have a strong loving bond with Allah, because they know that everything they own belongs to Him.
Allah informs us that Prophet Ibrahim (as) warned his idolatrous community in the following terms:
He [Ibrahim] said: “You have adopted deities apart from Allah as tokens of mutual affection in this world. But on the Day of Resurrection, you will reject and curse one another. The Fire will be your shelter. You will have no helpers.” (Surat al-’Ankabut, 25)

Who is better: Someone who establishes his building on the fear (and respect) of Allah and His good pleasure, or someone who establishes his building .on the brink of a crumbling precipice so that it
collapses with him into the Fire of Hell? Allah does not love wrongdoers.
(Surat at-Tawba, 109)
Thus, the “affection” between those who associate partners with Allah will ultimately turn into great hatred in the Hereafter. By forgetting His existence, they cause each other to lose their lives’ entire objective. In response, Allah turns their idolatrous love and closeness into eternal disgust and malice in the Hereafter.
The Qur’an mentions those people who put worldly gains and the approval and love of others before earning His good pleasure:
Say: “If your fathers or your sons or your brothers or your wives or your tribe; any wealth you have acquired; or any business you fear may fall into a slump; or any house that pleases you, are dearer to you than Allah and His messenger and striving in His way, then wait until Allah brings about His command. Allah does not guide people who are deviators.” (Surat at-Tawba, 24)
Those who have faith acknowledge that all worldly goods belong to Allah and, therefore, love them because they are a manifestation of Him. For example, the greatest love, closeness and friendship they feel will be towards other believers, who display the good morals that Allah is pleased with. This love does not depend on race, nationality, or any other self-interest. Nor does it depend on money, status, culture, or even material worth, for all of these have no real value. Allah describes the love between believers, as follows:
Those who were already settled in the abode [Madinah], and in faith, before they came, love those who have migrated to them; do not find in their hearts any need for what they have been given; and prefer them to themselves, even if they themselves are needy. The people who are safe-guarded from the avarice of their own selves are successful. (Surat al-Hashr, 9)
As mentioned, believers will accept all other believers as their brothers and sisters. Subsequently, to ensure the believers’ well-being, other believers will gladly make the necessary sacrifices to achieve this goal. Such a mutual love is only possible through having faith and living by the Qur’an’s morality.
Our Beloved Prophet (saas) stressed the importance of such love and the superior ranking of those believers who live a life with genuine love:
The Prophet (saas) said: “Allah said: ‘Those who love one another for My glory will have minbars of light, and the prophets and martyrs will wish that they had the same.” (At-Tirmidhi)
Allah bestows love, a very significant blessing, upon the believers. We see this in the case of Prophet Yahya (as), of whom the Qur’an says:
Yahya, take hold of the Book with vigor. We gave him judgment while still a child, and affection and purity from Us—he had fear [and respect]. (Surah Maryam, 12-13)
Those who submit themselves completely to Allah and do good have graspedd the Firmest Handhold. The end result of all affairs is with Allah. (Surah Luqman, 22)
In another verse, Allah proclaims that He will bestow true love upon the believers who undertake good deeds:
As for those who believe and do right actions, the All-Merciful will bestow His love upon them. (Surah Maryam, 96)
Here we must focus on one other important point: A person who loves for the sake of earning Allah’s good approval must love the person who possesses the highest moral qualities, is closest to Allah, and has the highest degree of piety. For this reason, for all believers our Prophet (saas) is the most lovable and closest friend.
GENUINE LOVE CAN ONLY BE LIVED TOGETHER WITH THE QUR’AN’S MORALITY
So set your face firmly toward the Religion, as a pure natural believer, Allah’s natural pattern on which He made humanity. (Surat ar-Rum, 30)
People who devote themselves wholeheartedly to Allah feel within themselves a sense of love and excitement when confronted with all of the beautiful things He has created: a flower, a butterfly, a bird, a cat, or even a beautiful landscape. Similarly, people who adhere to the Qur’an’s morals or a person with a face pleasing to look at will stir sincere amazement, because whatever they see they regard as Allah’s manifestation. The ebullient love felt toward Allah will bring forth a natural affection and love in their souls for anything His eternal beauty, masterpiece, wisdom and power are manifest. Only such people experience “true” love in the spiritual sense.

Do those who do not believe imagine that they can take My servants as protectors instead of Me? We have prepared Hell as hospitality for the unbelievers! (Surat al-Kahf, 102)
Qur’anic moral values form the basis of true love, for only they can inspire a person to love someone else deeply with his or her morals, personality, and all individual characteristics. By leading such a life, which earns them Allah’s good pleasure, they will acquire many loveable, beautiful characteristics. Knowing that “In your Lord’s sight, right actions which are lasting are better both in reward and end result” (Surah Maryam, 76), they persevere in all of these beautiful moral characteristics. Such qualities as faithfulness, truthfulness, respect, love, humbleness, sacrifice, honesty, tolerance, forgiveness, mercy, a soft nature, and bravery can be constant only through living a life of awe and respect for Allah and adhering to the Qur’an’s moral values. The same applies to love. The basis for this love is having faith and respect for Allah and internalizing the Qur’an’s morals, both of which will cause them to love others for the sake of Allah with a strong and deep love. The resulting friendships with other believers will, in the Hereafter, lead to eternal friendships.
A sincere believer’s superior level of moral values will ensure his or her high regard in Allah’s presence and in the sight of fellow believers. Such believers will expect and hope only for Allah’s love and good pleasure. In return, Allah will ensure that these believers are loved by Him, as well as other believers, that they will be granted a light and beauty, and that other people will have warm feelings for them.
…. Allah’s guidance, that is true guuidance. We are commanded to submit as Muslims to the Lord of all the worlds. (Surat al-An’am, 71)

Who could say anything better than someone who summons (other people) to Allah, acts rightly, and says: “I am one of the Muslims”? (Surah Fussilat, 33) And among the people are some who give up everything, desiring the good pleasure of Allah. Allah is Ever-Gentle with His servants. (Surat al-Baqara, 207)
MISUNDERSTANDINGS ABOUT LOVE’S TRUE NATURE
They worship besides Allah something for which no authority has come down, something about which they have no knowledge. There is no helper for the wrongdoers. (Surat al-Hajj, 71)
People who do not follow the Qur’an’s morals have an incorrect understanding of love. No matter how much they believe that they are leading a life full of love and respect toward others, these interactions are, in general, based on inappropriate and misleading bases. We will now examine some of these below.
IDOLATROUS LOVE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN
Examples of love based on idolatrous thinking are easily found in relationships between men and women. Some people channel their love and devotion toward other people who are, in essence, weak, instead of channeling it toward Allah. Sometimes, they make another person their life’s aim, mention their name whenever possible, and try to gain their love. This person will be the focus of their attention for the whole day. Or, they think about this person all night and thus cannot sleep. Instead of seeking Allah’s good pleasure, they will struggle to please only that particular person, even if this means that they have to do something that violates the Qur’an’s morals and the limits that Allah has established for humanity. They will make any sacrifice for that person, but exert no effort to gain Allah’s good pleasure. In other words, they transform the objects of their attention into little deities. This is why some romantic poems, writings, or even discussions claim that the author “worships” the object of his or her affection. Such an understanding of love, which associates others with Allah, is prohibited, for one’s love of Allah is a much stronger and superior type of love:
Remember Allah as you used to remember your forefathers—or even more. (Surat al-Baqara, 200)
If someone loves anything else, whether a person, a thing, or an idea, more than he or she loves Allah, he or she will fall into idolatry and draw near to Hell. Surprisingly, many people do not see the truth of this statement and so continue in their idolatry.
Obviously, loving other people, being concerned about their welfare, and lovingly protecting their families and relatives are admirable deeds and are blessings bestowed upon people by Allah. Such love, when it is based upon love for Allah, ensures that person will attain happiness in both worlds. If such love is not based upon love for Allah, the people will experience pain and agony in both worlds. Allah informs us that this second group of people will, in the Hereafter, try to ransom their way out of Hell by offering each other in payment:
An evildoer will wish he could ransom himself from the punishment of that Day by means of his sons, his wife, his brother, or his family who sheltered him, or everyone else on Earth, if that only meant that he could save himself. (Surat al-Ma’arij, 11-14)
The Day a man will flee from his brother, his mother, his father, and his wife and children. On that Day, every man among them will have concerns enough of his own. (Surah ‘Abasa, 34-37)
We do not associate anything with Allah. That is how Allah has favored us and all of humanity, but most do not give thanks. (Surah Yusuf, 38)
FRIENDSHIPS BASED ON SELF-INTEREST

Do not sell Allah’s contract for a paltry price. What is with Allah is better for you, if you only knew. (Surat an-Nahl, 95)
Some relationships, whether consciously or subconsciously, are based on self-interest. Some people, who feel an excitement when they meet a person whom they hope to benefit from, interpret this excitement as “love.” However, in truth it is no more than an “affected desire” for what that person has. In fact, such love often depends on the level of the “loved” person’s wealth and status. Wealth excites people, and thus the most excitement is felt towards the wealthiest person. As mentioned above, this type of excitement is nothing but an attachment to worldly interests. Rich people are not “loved” primarily for their morals and characteristics, and thus always seem to have many “friends” even if they are easily angered, rude, selfish, illogical, merciless, always looking for gain, insincere, or even thoughtless.
Some people want to be with those who entertain them: “A person who likes me should be able to make me laugh.” As a result, any resulting closeness is based on a deluded self-interest, for enjoying to be with a person who makes you laugh and feel happy is not the same as loving that person. However, because many people mistake the relief they feel for having gained something for love, they claim that they love that person very much.
You consider them united, but their hearts are scattered wide. That is because they are people who do not use their intellect. (Surat al-Hashr, 14)
Other people assume that being around good people will raise their esteem. As a result, they will select “good” people to befriend, considering their physical features such as height, the color of their eyes and hair. Often, such people can see only the other person’s physical beauty, not their intelligence, conscience, or characteristics. They do not consider these aspects important because they claim that their love has “blinded” them. However, this “love” means “I love the esteem this person’s beauty earns me.” Apart from that person’s beauty, his or her spirit does not mean anything to them. Just because he or she is beautiful, many inappropriate and undesirable particularities such as being merciless, insensitive, or scornful may totally be ignored.
Another important type of self-interest is trying to secure one’s future by getting married. Many people fear living alone, being unable to support themselves, or of having no one to look after them when they are sick. Some people seek to abolish all such fears by getting married. For this reason, they attach themselves to the most promising person in this regard and convince themselves that they have fallen in “love.”
For the rest of their lives, they share their pains and complaints about their spouse with their neighbors and relatives. But when asked why they stay with that person, they claim to love them very much. However, the Qur’an and its value system say that love should expect nothing in return. People should love other people sincerely, which involves personal sacrifice and expecting nothing in return, for that person is a manifestation of Allah. They should never backbite, but, as a result of this sincere love, should only speak well of them. They don’t obligatorily “tolerate” the others for they treat one another with compassion and mercy, cover up their misgivings, try to make them feel at ease, and respond to every need as best as they can. Sincere love, friendship and closeness are best demonstrated through these actions.
SHORT-TERM, TEMPORAL LOVE
Love that is not based on the Qur’an will inevitably be short-term in nature. For example, it is quite normal for people to dislike or feel upset with others when they realize that they cannot attain any benefit from that person. Similarly, those whom you formerly claimed to love become people that you have to tolerate if they have experienced some misfortune or some physical problem. For example, you might no longer love a person if he or she somehow becomes disfigured by an accident or an illness. A “perfect” couple’s marriage might collapse overnight when one spouse becomes terminally ill, experiences some personal or professional disaster, or is no longer as beautiful or as rich as before. Sometimes, despite the spouse’s physical beauty or wealth, the couple divorces because they no longer “love” the other person after witnessing his or her weakness during the illness. Similarly, although they seemed to get along well in the days when they possessed wealth and riches, some people inevitably lose the love and closeness they used to feel towards each other when their respective wealth and riches is dwindled away.

As for anyone who desires this fleeting existence, We hasten in it whatever We will to whoever We want. Then We will consign him to Hell, where he will roast, reviled and driven out. (Surat al-Isra’, 18)
You desire the goods of this world, whereas Allah desires the Hereafter. Allah is Almighty, All-Wise.
(Surat al-Anfal, 67)
Allah expands and restricts provision to anyone He wills. They rejoice in the life of this world. Yet the life of this world, compared to the Hereafter, is only fleeting enjoyment. (Surat ar-Ra’d, 26)
In essence, true love should never diminish, but should only increase with the passage of time. A person who values another person for his moral values finds that her love for him will increase as his good characteristics become ever more apparent. Even if this same person is left crippled, broke, or physically repellant, her love for him does not diminish. These hardships may, in effect, increase a person’s modesty and maturity and thereby make him a better and more moral person. As a result, their love for each other only grows stronger. These hardships have no effect on true love because true love is based on the Qur’an’s morals and the desire to earn Allah’s good pleasure by obeying the limits that He has established for humanity.

THE QURÁNIC UNDERSTANDING OF LOVE

People who do not live according to the Qur’an’s morals cannot love or be loved in the true sense of the word. For real love to be mutual, both people must love Allah with deep respect and should demonstrate those morals that gain Allah’s good pleasure. Allah will place love in the hearts of His beloved servants and ensure that other people will love them. It should not be forgotten that Allah is the real source and owner of love. To enable someone to live with true love, which is of great value and a great blessing, a person should seek to be worthy of this blessing by adhering to the Qur’an’s morals, and should pray that Allah bestows true love. People who do not adhere to the Qur’an’s morals live a life bereft of true knowledge, hope, and true friends in both worlds.
Allah informs us that love is a blessing that He bestows upon us:
And affection and purity from Us—he had fear [and respect]. (Surah Maryam, 13)
As for those who believe and do right actions, the All-Merciful will bestow His love upon them. (Surah Maryam, 96)
Among His signs is that He created spouses for you of your own kind so that you might find tranquility in them. And He has placed affection and compassion between you. There are certainly signs in that for people who reflect. (Surat ar-Rum, 21)
Given below are some of the characteristics Allah considers to be worthy of true love:
TO BE SELF-SACRIFICIN

Do not direct your eyes longingly to what We have given certain of them to enjoy. Do not feel sad concerning them. And take the believers under your wing. (Surat al-Hijr, 88)
Some people who do not believe in Allah and the Hereafter judge this world to be a place of great struggle, and therefore believe that the strong will inevitably overcome the weak. This view, the product of a completely mistaken way of thinking, is based on driving people away from good morals and seeking to protect their own gains and interests. A community that is ruled according to such claims sees no need to help those who need assistance; to be self-sacrificing or concerned about another person’s welfare, happiness, and ease; to put his or her interests above their own. Subsequently, such activities are avoided because they bring no benefits to those who engage in them.
Thus, these people cannot really love one another, for people cannot truly love those who think of their own welfare before they think of somebody else’s. For example, people who experience another person’s selfishness feel their love for that person die slowly. If a person only thinks about his own comfort, keeping a delicious meal or a comfortable bed for himself, and not thinking about his or her neighbors, this will inevitably shatter the love felt for that person. Since people regularly witness this type of behavior, they subconsciously hold a negative view point toward such people.
Some people who are far removed from the Qur’an’s morality cannot ask even their closest friends to make any sacrifice. For example, a mother who has to take care of her sick child cannot ask her coworker to do her work while she is meeting her child’s needs. Even if one helps his own parents, some trouble will probably arise among his siblings. On the other hand, most people, when asked, say that they love their parents dearly. However, if self-sacrificing is required and there is no real gain in sight for that person, most people will seek to avoid such obligations. However, those who truly love somebody else will make all sorts of sacrifices, and will never tire or get sick of such sacrifice.
One of the sincere believers’ most identifiable characteristics is that they will freely put their own interests below those of other believers. Allah gives one such example in the Qur’an, when recounting the Makkan Muslims’ emigration to Madinah, and how the Muslims in Madinah welcomed them.
The Qur’an informs us of the beautiful morals of the believers in the following verse:
Those who were already settled in the abode [Madinah], and in faith, before they came love, those who have migrated to them; do not find in their hearts any need for what they have been given; and prefer them to themselves, even if they themselves are needy. The people who are safe-guarded from the avarice of their own selves are successful. (Surat as-Hashr, 9)
The Makkan believers emigrated so that they could live their religion. They left behind all of their belongings, relatives, homes, vineyards, gardens, and their places of work in order to gain Allah’s good pleasure. This demonstrates their superior morals and indicates the fact they have chosen Allah as their guardian and are trustworthy people. Their beautiful morals caused Madinah’s Muslims to welcome them in the best possible manner with deep love, respect, and mercy.
Without considering their own needs and interests, they provided for the interests and needs of their brethren when it came to eating and living. Their self-sacrificing actions were based on their strong and sincere love for Allah and all other believers. Their beautiful morals also drew the love of other believers toward them. Allah mentions these believers in the Qur’an with love and praise, and for the past 1,400 years they have left an indelible impression in every believer’s heart.

You will not attain true goodness until you give of what you love. Whatever you give away, Allah knows it. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 92) [The people who guard against evil are] those who give in times of both ease and hardship, those who control their rage and pardon other people—Allah loves the good-doers. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 134)
Another example is given in the following verses:
They give food, despite their love for it, to the poor, the orphans, and the captives: “We feed you only out of desire for the Face of Allah. We do not want any repayment from you or any thanks. Truly, We fear from our Lord a glowering, calamitous Day.” (Surat al-Insan, 8-10)
Despite being in need themselves, those who offer their food to the hungry will naturally be loved and respected. Let’s expand upon this with the following example. Let’s pretend that you and two other people are very tired and hungry. In front of you is enough food for just one person and only one bed. One of them decides to eat the food and use the bed without asking you for permission, while the other person, despite being hungry, offers his food to you and insists that you sleep in the bed. In this situation, you would feel quite cold toward the selfish person, but quite warm and loving toward the one who placed his needs below yours. Allah created human soul so as to be pleased with good morals and feel love and affection for such people.
TO BE FORGIVING
Some people who do not live according to the Qur’an’s morals easily become angry and dissatisfied with others, and get upset with those who do not live up to their expectations. Many people end long-term friendships with their “closest friends” and become their worst enemy in an instant due to relatively minor matters. This is because they do not live by the Qur’an’s morals and thus cannot forgive, be patient or loving toward others, and they lead a life that is far removed from superior morals and the resulting characteristics.
Believers, who are very patient and forgiving, will not become angry and end their friendships just because of some minor mistakes and misgivings. Instead, they will give the other person another chance, remind them of the truth, and help them change their behavior. Instead of feeling anger and animosity toward their friends in public, they attempt to fix their mistakes and misgivings by giving examples from the Qur’an. In sincere love, feelings of great understanding and tolerance reign supreme. Every situation will be resolved with love, understanding, and in peace.
Allah reveals that believers should be forgiving:
Those of you who are affluent and rich should not make oaths that they will not give [anything] to their relatives, the very poor, and those who have migrated in the way of Allah. Rather, they should pardon and overlook. Wouldn’t you love Allah to forgive you? Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surat an-Nur, 22)
You will never cease to come upon some act of treachery on their part, except for a few of them. Yet pardon them and overlook. Allah loves good-doers. (Surat al-Ma’ida, 13)
The Qur’an places no limitations on how believers are to forgive others. Thus, even those people who constantly harm the believers should be forgiven. Believers will quite easily forgive another person, even if they suffer a great loss as a result of that person’s actions. By forgiving a gossip, a trouble maker, or someone who causes him a serious material loss, and thus by being an excellent example of high morals, that same person may become a close friend. In fact, when a believer is forgiven, he or she will feel great love and gratitude toward the forgiver. Allah reveals in the Qur’an that one has to be able to forgive in order to develop true love:
A good action and a bad action are not the same. Repel the bad with something better. If there is enmity between you and someone else, he will be like a bosom friend. (Surah Fussilat, 34)
TO BE HUMBLE
One can acquire genuine love only after conquering selfishness, working for gain, insincerity, haughtiness, and similar behaviors. On the other hand, modesty is one of the most important aspects of love, for those who see themselves as superior to others only value themselves. Viewing other people as without value and inferior, they believe that they are the most intelligent, conscious, and worthy of respect. In other words, they turn their selves into little deities. Such a person find it impossible to associate with those who are “inferior,” and so cannot sacrifice for them or put their needs first. As a result, they can feel no true and sincere love for them. Thus, love and haughtiness are mutually exclusive. A person who is haughty can neither be loved nor feel a deep and sincere love towards anyone.
There are many reasons why haughty people lead a loveless life. They generally have characteristics that are conducive to making fun of people in order to increase their value in their own eyes. They think that publicizing other people’s shortcomings will display their own superiorities. No one will feel a sincere love in their hearts for those who constantly ridicule and degrade others.
On the other hand, modest people are always loved, for they value the person in front of them and, because of their adherence to Qur’anic values, other people will feel at ease with them. Such people listen intently and sincerely to any advice given to them, and never argue and assert that they know better. Rather than becoming haughty, they will display a good and positive attitude. They will not dispute the truth nor repel the wrong with anger. They answer all questions with great sensitivity, and never demand that other people show him love or respect first. Even when dealing with a haughty and argumentative person, they will respond by being modest, value other people’s opinions, reply to everyone’s greetings in the best possible manner, and be full of love and respect toward everyone. In short, the modesty brought about by the Qur’an’s morals will develop into a model person who is very harmonious, open to different views, and not haughty. In fact, they will be models of honor, care for others, and value others. For this reason, modest people are usually loved very much. Allah informs us of this, as follows:
The servants of the All-Merciful are those who walk lightly [without arrogance] on the land, and who, when the ignorant speak to them, say: “Peace.” (Surat al-Furqan, 63)
In another verse, He relates that:
Your god is One god, so submit to Him. Give good news to the humble-hearted. (Surat al-Hajj, 34)
Moreover, as a result of his modesty and soft nature, people gathered around our Prophet (saas):
It is a mercy from Allah that you were gentle with them. If you had been rough or hard of heart, they would have scattered from around you. So pardon them, ask forgiveness for them, and consult them about the matter. When you have reached a firm decision, put your trust in Allah. Allah loves those who put their trust in Him. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 159)
TO BE STRAIGHTFORWARD
Some unbelievers feel very comfortable when telling lies. If such people do not admit their lies and stop engaging in this deceitful behavior, no one will love them. Liars often lose sight of the truth, and therefore are very undependable and untrustworthy people. People cannot love those whom they don’t trust.
Believers, however, never lie, regardless of the consequences to their own interests. Thus, they are completely reliable and trustworthy, for they do not hide or distort the truth, or make promises they cannot possibly keep. For believers, there are no such things as white lies. As a result, they do not resort to lying in order to be seen as doing good, or to protect their esteem in the eyes of others, to show off, to ensure their material gain, or to cause any sort of loss to other people.
This beautiful moral value is one of the factors that turns a person’s soul toward love, for soul will form feelings of true love toward a person who displays honesty and truthfulness. Our Prophet (saas) emphasized the importance of love between believers and stated that before this love could be developed and strengthened, sincerity and trust had to be established first:
Abu Hurayrah reported: “The Messenger of Allah (saas) observed: ‘You shall not enter Paradise so long as you do not affirm belief (in all those things that are the articles of faith), and you will not believe as long as you do not love one another. Should I direct you to a thing that, if you do, will foster love among you: (the practice of paying salutation to one another by saying) as-salamu alaikum.’” (Sahih Muslim)
TO BE PATIENT
The Qur’an reminds us that “people are prone to selfish greed” (Surat an-Nisa’,128). Thus, we must strive to protect ourselves from such negative character traits so that we can attain the high morals befitting Paradise. However, despite this, people make mistakes. People who are trying to live lives of genuine love and friendship should not forget this fact. They must be very patient and forgiving toward those who they love, be patient when their friends do something wrong, and attempt to compensate for their shortcomings, for only those who are patient and unselfish can love and be loved. Patience strengthens and develops mutual love and tolerance. Believers rely on each other and, because they are believers and respect one another, bear each other’s mistakes with tolerance and forgiveness. To compensate for these mistakes, they redouble their efforts to live according to the Qur’an’s morals in the best possible manner, which only draws them closer to their fellow believers. For this reason, they are always patient with other people, regardless of the magnitude of their mistake.

Your god is One god, so submit to Him. Give good news to the humble-hearted. (Surat al-Hajj, 34)
Our Prophet (saas) directs the believers to cover their fellow believers’ mistakes and to support them:
Every Muslim is a brother to a Muslim, neither wronging him nor allowing him to be wronged. If anyone helps his brother in need, Allah will help him in his own need. If anyone removes a calamity from [another] Muslim, Allah will remove from him some of the calamities of the Day of Resurrection. If anyone shields [another] Muslim from disgrace, Allah will shield him from disgrace on the Day of Resurrection. (Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim)
The patience of a person who loves Allah and is constantly pleased with Him differs significantly from the understanding of patience of unbelievers. Unbelievers attempt to “endure” in some situations if they think that they will gain something from another person, or if they fear the repercussions of their community. They consider that they have the right to sulk, complain, or act badly. They will think: “I am putting up with this much trouble, so I am entitled to do as I like,” or other similar statements. For example, an unbeliever who is looking after his sick friend will at some stage begin to be bored, become angry, and start to complain. He will complain that he cannot sleep, is very tired, that the job at hand is very hard, or even that nobody could possibly be as self-sacrificing as he is. These feelings will become noticeable and will cause his sick friend to feel obliged, for he will remind him all the time that he is doing him a favor.
A patient person however, responds to all of these needs with pleasure and does whatever is necessary to help him. He will never make that person feel obliged. Allah tells all believers to be patient with others, for it is one of their most beautiful character traits:
O you who believe, be steadfast. Be supreme in steadfastness and firm on the battlefield, and fear [and respect] Allah, so that, hopefully, you will be successful. (Surah Al ‘Imran, 200)
To Be Faithful
One other characteristic that attracts the love of other people is faithfulness. Allah informs the believers that He will reward them for their faithfulness. For this reason, all believers implement this characteristic without reserve. As Allah tells us in the Qur’an:
So that Allah might recompense the truthful for their truth and punish the hypocrites, if He wills, or turn toward them. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surat al-Ahzab, 24)
Even under the most difficult of circumstances, believers will never compromise their faithfulness toward Allah and the believers. Allah mentions Prophet Musa (as) and his young followers as role models for all believers:
No one had faith in Musa, except for a few of his people, out of fear that Pharaoh and the elders would persecute them. Pharaoh was high and mighty in the land. He was one of the profligate. Musa said: “O my people. If you believe in Allah, then put your trust in Him, if you are Muslims.” (Surah Yunus, 83-84)
Throughout history, the believers and prophets have led lives whereby they have been killed, lost their wealth or esteem, and have been accused of various misdeeds. The believers, who have never left each other, as a result of their love for Allah and their fear, respect, and closeness to Him, have endured all of these dangers and have not yielded to them. Their heartfelt and unconditional loyalty to Allah is reason enough for the believers to feel love for one another. Allah informs us of this in the following verse:
The believers are only those who have believed in Allah and His messenger, and then have had no doubt and have striven with their wealth and themselves in the way of Allah. They are the ones who are true to their word. (Surat al-Hujurat, 15)

[The steep ascent is] then to be one of those who believe and urge each other to steadfastness, and urge each other to compassion. (Surat al-Balad, 17)
TO BE MERCIFUL
Mercy is one part of love. Therefore, one cannot have sincere love if he has no mercy for others. Our Prophet’s (saas) mercy is an excellent example for all believers. As Allah states in the Qur’an, Prophet Muhammad (saas) displayed the most superior morals possible:
A messenger has come to you from among yourselves. Your suffering is distressing to him. He is deeply concerned for you, and gentle and merciful to the believers. (Surat at-Tawba, 128)
Merciful people do not wish for the people living around them to lead miserable lives no matter how important their own lives are, how well they are doing, for those people are just the same, even more important, than their own needs. For this reason, one of the most obvious characteristics of a merciful person is that he is concerned with the issues of others and does his best to resolve their problems.
Our Prophet (saas) directs all believers to act mercifully toward all other people:
Those who have mercy will receive the mercy of the Most Merciful. Have mercy on those who are on Earth, and the One in Heaven will have mercy on you. (At-Tirmidhi)
A PERSON WILL THINK OF THE HEREAFTER OF SOMEONE HE SINCERELY LOVES
A person’s real life, the eternal life of the Hereafter, only begins after death, for this world is no more than a temporary residence in which all people are tried. The believers, who are conscious of this reality, demonstrate their love for one another by preparing for the Hereafter. As much they would like to attain Allah’s good pleasure, mercy, and Paradise, they would like their loved ones to share the same blessings and beauties as themselves. Knowing that one could face eternity in Hell, they behave in a manner designed to lead others toward the true path. Whenever they see a mistake in each other’s behavior, they immediately will do their best to help their beloveds alter their behavior and morals so that they will gain Allah’s good pleasure. They invite one another to what is good and beautiful, and withdraw from what He has proclaimed to be unlawful. Their eagerness and sincere love for one another is one of their best characteristics. Allah informs us of the believers’ understanding of the strengthened love:
Believing men and women are friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong, perform prayer and give alms, and obey Allah and His messenger. They are the people on whom Allah will have mercy. Allah is Almighty, All-Wise. (Surat at-Tawba, 71)
Allah is the protector of those who believe. He brings them out of the darkness and into the light. But those who do not believe have false deities as protectors. They take them from the light into the darkness. Those are the Companions of the Fire, remaining in it timelessly, forever. (Surat al-Baqara, 257)
IN SINCERE LOVE, THE OTHER PERSON’S DESIRES ALWAYS TAKE PRECEDENCE
For many people, the most important thing in their life is their own welfare. However, those who love other people sincerely forget their own desires and put those of their beloved’s first. They do whatever is necessary to make that person comfortable and meet his or her needs. For example, if two people successfully complete a topic, he would rather see the person that he loves complimented. He will gain great satisfaction if his beloved is in the right, instead of himself, and would rather do the work himself instead of seeing his beloved become tired. He would never confound, belittle, or hurt his beloved, because his sole desire is to gain Allah’s good pleasure and love, as well as His Paradise. As a result, he will be able to demonstrate a sincere love and understanding for the other person.